“You've seen my descent; now see me rising.” — Rumi
Elder & End of Life Care
“If your compassion does not include yourself, it is incomplete.” — Buddha.
Those navigating this journey, whether caregivers or the aged or ill, need support.
I’ve been a doula since before I knew the word. The term “doula” originates from the concept of service, a principle instilled in me by my mother during her long illness. In that time, we experienced the loss of 20 family members, from my brother to my grandparents. My mother believed that, in these times, we should hold space for our families and support the spirituality and sacredness of death. Inspired by her example, I have continued to hold space for others during these profound moments.
As my father’s caregiver, I was present for each day of his progressive journey, including conversations about advanced care planning and discussions on how and where to die. When I sought support, I could not find a diverse, accessible navigator to guide my family through this difficult path. I needed someone who understood my cultural background, the challenges of being raised as a visible minority and an only child, and the complexities of being married to someone from a different culture. This yearning for understanding and connection was immense. It was a privilege to guide my father and ensure his desire for a peaceful passing at home was met. His encouragement led me to pursue this work.
As an Eldercare Navigator and End-of-Life Doula, I am dedicated to providing practical and emotional support to patients and families throughout the journey of aging, illness, and the transition into death. My goal is to provide compassionate, non-judgmental support that respects each individual’s and family’s unique journey. Whether drawing on my 20+ years in HR or my work as a doula, I serve as a steady, empathetic presence — empowering families to make informed choices and creating meaningful spaces for individuals and families to honor life through grieving, remembering, and dying.